DEFENSE MECHANISM

- Defense mechanisms are unconscious coping mechanisms that reduce anxiety generated by threats from unacceptable impulses.

 5 defense mechanism

The first one is DENIAL I have an a situation that me and my friends sitting at psysoc cabana because we discuss our final product in Philippine constitution and we decided to finished that as much as possible because that final product is so very hard. Then a few minutes we stopped talking because my crush and his friends are looking at us, don’t know why,, and I getting blushy , my heart beat fast then my friends starting to *ASARIN AKO* and my face look like POKER FACE -.- but deep inside I wanna die because he’s started to smiled at me. =]

the next is ACTING OUT, Sometimes I act like a stupid or idiot kid, because Instead of saying, “I’m angry with you, I act out may instead throw a something that I touched or I throw some harsh word to the person who I really hated and he/she’s pretending too much, or punch a hole through a wall, or sometimes if I’m angry and when my youngest brother bothering me I’m getting weird, I shouted too loud!  And saying to him * ANO BA PROBLEMA MO? BAKIT NANDIDITO KA NANAMAN NANG GUGULO KA NANAMAN *LAYAS!!!!!!* And he response * BAKIT NANAMAN? ANG SUNGIT SUNGIT MO NANAMAN SAKIN =[ * then a few minutes when we see each other he didn’t talk to me he didn’t say anything then my face like a lion or tiger and said * K with my right eyebrow’s up. Then walk away. =]

 The third is SUBLIMATION I returned those things that when I was in childhood, for example I have a favorite song on my childhood, and I try to listened again even though I’m older then I remember the things that when the song played I felt happy. And now that I’m older and when I sang the song I feel that I’m young again =]

The fourth is REGRESSION, when I was in grade school I don’t want to go to school because I’m afraid to the people, so i began to exhibit very childish behaviors like throwing a tantrum, crying, not letting go of my mother's leg, and even wetting her pants. I have a lot of alibi, I’m pretending that I have a tooth ache, head ache, stomach ache, fever, or what, but one of the most alibi that I made is I told my parents that we have no classes because my teacher go to they’re province because her lola died, then they go to the school to find out if what I’m saying is true. Then they found that I’m lying so they mad at me, and as’ usual I ask them to forgive me, and I say sorry for what I’ve done and gave me another chance to prove them that I will never do it again, then they gave me another chance but like what I said I’m so stupid kid that time so I did it again with a new alibi.  =]     

And last REACTION FORMATION,I express my feelings that Iam mad or I’m not kind to the people who’s around me, so they told me *MALDITA* but im not *maldita*, I just don’t want or I hate people who’s very unsociable, and I hate people who’s don’t accept me for what I’am, I hate that people seriously, then they ask me to pretend but for me its not nice or not ok to pretend to the person you don’t want or like , because they called that *PLASTIC* and I don’t want that , because im contented with what I have, so I don’t need to became a plastic just with them,what I want is to become a better person not a bitch person.

OLD BOY ! ( ABNORMAL PSYCHOLOGY )

                      

Dae-su was imprisoned for 15 years, He is released without reason on a rooftop then receives a taunting phone call from his captor who refuses to explain why he was imprisoned. A few moments later he suddenly collapses at a sushi restaurant and is taken in by Mi-do Kang hye-Jung, the sushi restaurant's chef. Meanwhile, Dae-Su also tries to find his daughter and discovers that she was adopted by a swedish couple after his wife's tragic death. Recalling the dumplings he ate while in prison, Dae-su locates the restaurant that made them and then followed and tracked a delivery man to the place where he was held. Dae-su was held on a private prison where people can pay to have others tortured and incarcerated. Afterwards, Dae-su tortures the warden for information, and acquiring only that he was held captive for “talking too much”. Then fought his way out of the building, then Dae-Su was approached by a man, his captor, a wealthy man named Lee Woo-Jin Yoo Ji-Tae. He gave Dae-su an ultimatum, To discover the true motive behind his imprisonment in five days time and his captor, Woo-Jin will kill himself if he did and if not, Mi-do will die.

As Dae-Su and Mi-do grow emotionally intimate, they finaly made love after the first time they had met. Dae-su discovers he and Woo-Jin attended the same Highschool, and remembers spying on Woo-Jin's incestous relationship with his sister. Soo-Ah, unaware of the family ties, Dae-su inadvertently spread a rumor before moving to South Korea's Capital, Seoul. As a result of the humor, Soo-ah suffered from false sign of pregnancy and committed a horrible suicide. Joining Dae-su's side after having his hand amputated by Woo-jin, Mr. Park, the warden of the private prison, agrees to incarcerate and protect Mi-do while Dae-su confronts his nemesis. Arriving at Woo-Jin's penthouse, Dae-Su admitts he accidently drove Soo-Ah to suicide. Woo-Jin then took revenge and reveals that Dae-su's actual daughter is Mi-do, The woman he so passionately love and not to mention, made love with as well.Woo-jin then showed Dae-su a video footage that Mi-do is his actual daughter, and the video was not fake and forgerized.

Woo-jin had imprisoned Dae-su for 15 years so that Mi-do would be old enough to fall inlove with Dae-su, with the intent on making Dae-su feel the same pain he previously felt with Soo-ah. Woo-jin gives him a photo album to confirm this and also revealed that Mr. Park is still working for him and will give a similar album to Mi-do. Dae-su, then started begging Woo-jin to spare Mi-do from the shocking truth it will give Mi-do. Dae-su was even ready to have his own tounge cut in a gesture of atonement. Woo-Jin was convinced of the atonement that Dae-su was longing for. Sometime Later, Dae-su sits in the snowy ground with the hypnotist whom was hired by Woo-jin. The hypnotist was touched by Dae-sus's handwritten story and pleas, she hypnotizes him and changes Dae-su's memories so that he forgets the terrible secret.

Afterwards, Mi-do approached Dae-su alone in the snow, and tells him she loves him before  giving him a hug. Dae-su then smiled with happiness, but the smile he showed was quickly replaced by a look of pain, sadness and grief and left with the question,  “did the hypnosis worked at all?” 

after watching the movie of old boy i feel mix emotion like getting eeewwwiiieee because on the scene that have a sex , laugh , getting crazy , etch. It contains a lot of violence, and people saying harsh words to there opponent. and its all about the behaviors, the attitude , the stupid things that they says,   I already understand what this movie wants to show to us.

in the movie like Mr.woo trying to revenge because of the suicide of her own sister i think the ending of the story will be the lead men and her daughter will still love each other despite the fact of being blood related. 

My Study Habits

 

 

I have common study habits. Unlike others. 

Before the examination week. I always try my best to avoid cellphones or watching television or even browsing the net.. I often browse some notes just to make sure that the retaining lessons in my mind are correct. In short, I recall. Just to recall. 

I've read some of the tips just to exercise my study habits. And it says like this

1. I should skim some textbooks or research at the library rather than buying new one.

2, I jot down notes.

3. I prefer listening to professors better than reading non-sense textbooks.

4. I highlight all the lectures that emphasizes the idea.

5. If the professor repeated the topic more than 2 times, it's going to be on the test.\

6. I study 4 hrs. before the exam.

7. I don't let my social activities affect mu study habits.

8. I always do my best in memorizing, I jot it down again and again and then sleep. Because the mind refreshes it and it will be saved in my long term goal memory.

The best way to refresh my knowledge are getting up early, eat healthy breakfast that will boost my energy, and I always try to flash the unnecessary things. And go get dressed. 

What makes a genius?

Exploring the differences between an average brain, and a gifted one. 

We all know that Albert Einstein is the symbol of Scientific Genius He contributed so many thing in science.

but i think what makes a people genius is to study very hard , read books ,focus on studies , keep your mind open to all things , You cannot do well if you are not willing and interested to do it. and last i think you are not always need to contribute anything in science , 
because like what i said a true genius is keep their mind open to all things.

GENIUS - is a very smart or talented person , a person who has a level of talent or intelligence that is very rare or remarkable and a person who is very good at doing something.

• extraordinary skills, abilities or achievements.
• productivity as a genius factor
• high IQ
• do something exceptional related to science that will helps everyone.

    

2014 -

                     

most of us hoping for a good future for ourselves and also to our family. opportunities for our career and environment initiatives, where as a few dreams of fulfilling.
for  my self, i want to be a good in my studies so that i can get a good grades, i also want to be use full in my family by helping them in our small business, to become big. i want also to be blessed and grateful for what i have. God is good ,  nothing is impossible if you believe in him.

I'm the RIGHT brain ! with LOVE , PEACE , FREEDOM , PASSION , VIVID  THOU ART POETRY , CREATIVE AND YEARNING. all of  that i mention are the words that can describe of who I am and the personality of being me Like CREATIVE sometimes , especially when i was in high school if my teacher told us that we make a scrapbook for our final examination, then all of the efforts, creativeness and etch. all of that i made just for my works to become a perfect and beautiful. =] PEACE , FREEDOM and LOVE everyone needs a PEACE ,FREEDOM and LOVE, every people every person needs that. especially the LOVE  why ? because LOVE is very important for a person, everyone wants to be happy everyone need that word, he or she needs a perfect relationship, needs a perfect or right person, but sometimes that word can cause of suicide, death, crazy,etch , WHY?. Why some people do that stupid things ? because they don't know what they're doing , because they left of their love ones ? oh c'mon what a stupid and idiot person !! (sorry for that words, coz i'm telling the truth ). they don't know our life is very important, they don't know our life is made form our Lord Jesus Christ !, they don't know that if they do that stupid things they go to hell,! some people think that but some people are not. (sad to say). So we must be alert to the person that we love. First we must recognize the person so at the end we will not repent. =]

I don't want to speak because there's no assurance in the future or what will happen in the future
(hindi ko alam kung ano kahihinatnan ko balang araw kasi ayaw ko itong pangunahan. )

>. thats all =]] thanks .<